The Pleasure Collective
A Monthly Membership to Reclaim Your Desire.
Heal Your Relationship with Sex, and Finally Feel the Pleasure You Were Made For.
You’ve done the therapy.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve journaled about your inner child
You've decoded your attachment style, and maybe even tried scheduling sex like a grown-up.
But something’s still missing.
You know there’s more.
More connection. More turn-on. More truth in your body.
You know you were miseducated and want to reclaim your erotic truth
You’ve done mindset work but still feel stuck or shut down.
You want deeper connection, clearer communication, and real intimacy.
Pleasure Is a Skill.
And You Can Learn It.
You’re done performing or people-pleasing and want to know what you actually want.
You want real tools, real healing, and a community that gets it.
The Pleasure Collective helps you move from confusion or disconnection to clarity, confidence, and embodied pleasure — slowly, gently, and sustainably.
The Pleasure Collective is a self-paced membership experience where each month builds one essential layer of your Personal Pleasure Blueprint.
By the end of 12 months, you’ll have a clear, customized Personal Pleasure User Manual that answers:
What turns me on and what shuts me down?
How does my desire actually work?
How do I ask for what I want without shame or conflict?
How do I feel confident, sensual, and at home in my body?
How do I create intimacy that feels safe and nourishing?
Feel disconnected from desire or unsure how to access it..
Enjoy sex sometimes but rarely crave it..
Experience mismatched libidos in relationships..
Struggle with body confidence or self-trust..
Want deeper intimacy but don’t know how to ask for it..
Are you tired of performing too?
...instead of feeling like it's all a show and pleasure is for others.
If you want pleasure that feels like YOU, the true you who has possibly been hiding..
If you want pleasure that feels embodied as you love and live in it instead of fighting or ignoring it..
This 12 month journey provides the Tools to let pleasure be absolutely sustainable as you continue to explore, evolve and step into learning you again.
Inside The Pleasure Collective, you’ll spend 12 months understanding your body, desire, and communication with tools you can use for life.
Your 12-Month Pleasure Blueprint
Each month includes a guided lesson, reflective practices, and a tangible piece of your Pleasure User Manual.
You go at your own pace.
No falling behind.
No pressure.
Here's the breakdown if you want to geek 🤓 out with me and know the details up front, I got you ;)
✨ Phase 1: Understanding Your Desire (Months 1–3)
You’ll feel:
Clear, curious, and connected to your body
Instead of:
Confused, numb, or wondering what’s “wrong” with you
You’ll stop guessing why desire comes and goes and start understanding how your desire actually works.
💬 Phase 2: Communication + Emotional Safety (Months 4, 6, 7)
You’ll feel:
Safe, heard, and confident asking for what you want
Instead of:
Shut down, over-explaining, or staying silent to keep the peace
You’ll have language for needs, boundaries, and turn-ons without shame or conflict.
🔥 Phase 3: Erotic Identity + Confidence (Months 5, 8–10)
You’ll feel:
Curious, confident, and at home in your erotic self
Instead of:
Judging your desires, hiding parts of yourself, or feeling “too much” or “not enough”
You’ll meet your desires with compassion and step into pleasure without apology.
💞 Phase 4: Pleasure in Relationship + Integration (Months 11–12)
You’ll feel:
Grounded, connected, and empowered to grow pleasure long-term
Instead of:
Anxious about losing momentum or slipping back into old patterns
You’ll know how to nurture intimacy with yourself or a partner in a way that actually fits your life.
This isn’t a quick fix.
It’s a new relationship with your desire. With yourself. As you evolve.
That actually will finally make sense.
If you want extra guidance or personalized integration, you can book:
45-minute 1:1 coaching sessions
$45 per session (optional, as needed)
Because desire isn’t a switch... it’s an entire intricate system.
Because confidence comes from understanding, not pressure.
Because pleasure deepens when your nervous system feels safe.
This is slow.
Intentional.
Powerful.
Join The Pleasure Collective
If you’re ready to stop guessing, stop forcing, and start trusting your body
✨ Welcome to your Pleasure Blueprint.
👉 Join The Pleasure Collective
Meet The Coach

Lauren Goyette
Hear our users
Enrolling in The Pleasure Collective was a game-changer for me. The interactive learning features and diverse course selection allowed me to acquire new skills and broaden my Sensual horizons. I highly recommend it to anyone eager to embrace lifelong learning.
Alice R.
As a working professional, flexibility was crucial for me. The monthly dropped Modules made my learning journey truly enriching with all the resources and easy to follow path. The support from Lauren is helpful if you like accountability for your path
Sarah T.
Perfect for the self-paced seeker who wants to explore their pleasure on their own terms.
Includes:
✔ Monthly Core lesson
✔ Pleasure Blueprint workbook drops
✔ Private community access
✔ Digital resource library
✔ Monthly sensual practice
For the one who wants a mix of structure and connection — not alone, not all-in.
Includes everything in Tier 1, plus:
✔ Monthly group coaching Q&A call
✔ Bonus mini-courses or rituals
✔ telegram office hours (limited availability)
✔ Sensual challenges + journaling prompts
For the soul ready to be seen, deeply supported, and fast-track their desire journey.
Includes everything in Tier 2, plus:
✔ Monthly 1:1 coaching call
✔ Priority access to message support
✔ Personalized action plans with pocket coaching
✔ Pleasure accountability check-ins
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Where you learn to Understand Your Desire &
Create Pleasure on Your Terms ✨
A 12-month, self-paced journey to build your Personal Pleasure User Manual so intimacy, confidence, and connection feel natural instead of forced.